1. Dress nicely
Remember you are going on a “date” not buying groceries around the corner.

2. Prepare a few questions beforehand
Avoid questions such as salary and ex-boyfriends/girlfriends. Make your questions interesting, creative and representative of who you are. It pays to do a little preparation and it’s a great confidence booster knowing you’ll never be stuck for something to say. It will increase your comfort level and the fun.

3. Be polite
Sometimes when we are nervous, we say too much. Be a good listener and smile and most importantly make the best of each 6 minute conversation.

4. Put your best foot forward
Nobody wants to hear how pessimistic or lazy you are. And people definitely don’t want to hear about your grandma’s funeral or your friend’s bankruptcy. Don’t let those topics be someone’s only impression of you!

5. Take notes about your dates
It’s hard to remember faces and names when the event is over. You are provided two cards, one is for organizers and the other for you.

6. Be respectful regardless of language barriers
Because we advertise exclusively in English magazines, there is a good balance of local Chinese and foreigners. Most of our attendees are English speakers but if by chance your conversation partner is someone who only speaks Chinese try to improve your language skills, including body language. Don’t forget – we’re in China.

7. If looking for a date, come alone
It is fun attending with a friend, but remember others will be reluctant to ask you on a date at the risk of hurting your friend’s feelings.

8. Don’t be surprised if somebody is looking only for friendship
Speed dating is open to all eligible people, not exclusively individuals who are looking for relationships.

9. Try not to smoke during conversation
We all have a case of the nerves during speed dating, but your conversation partner prefers to smell your perfume and pheromones.

10. Drink in moderation
Avoid getting drunk and remember there are no bathroom breaks during speed dating. When ordering a drink ask your partner if she/he needs anything.

11. If you attend with a friend, try not to exchange comments until the end of the event.
It can be rude when people overhear you talking about them and it makes a bad impression.

12. Register in advance
Even numbers are essential in speed dating and we can only accept a limited number of participants.